But let’s be honest, sticking to these commitments can be tough. Studies show that many resolutions are lost and forgotten by February. Don’t worry, though! With the right approach, we can make real progress towards our goals. Here are some tips for success:
1. Set Realistic Goals It’s great to dream big, but our resolutions should also be realistic. Instead of saying, “I’ll never eat junk food again,” try, “I’ll eat more fruits and vegetables every day.” Setting smaller, achievable goals makes it easier to stay on track and feel good about our progress.
2. Be Specific Vague goals like “I want to get more fit” or “I want to get better at Kickboxing” can be hard to follow. Instead, be specific about what you want to do. For example, say, “I will exercise for 30 minutes three times a week” or “I will make a routine of 3 classes a week.” Well defined goals are easier to achieve because then we know exactly what to do to make them happen.
3. Write It Down Writing our resolutions on paper or in a journal makes them feel more real. Put a list somewhere that you’ll see often, like on the fridge or phone. This will remind us of our goals and keep us motivated.
4. Break It Down Big goals can feel overwhelming. Break them into smaller steps. For example, if our goal is to run a 5K, start by walking or jogging a mile. Then gradually increase the distance. Small steps add up to big changes. In terms of the martial arts, we can focus on individual techniques and strategies that are challenging or required for our next stripe or belt.
5. Track Your Progress Keep track of how you’re doing. You can use a notebook, an app, or even a calendar. Celebrate your successes, no matter how small. Tracking progress shows you how far you’ve come and keeps you motivated.
6. Stay Flexible Life happens, and plans change. If life gets in the way and you miss a day, week, or month don’t give up! Adjust your goals if needed and keep going. Return to your routine when you can. Remember, progress is more important than perfection.
7. Look For Support Tell friends or family about your resolutions. If they’re good friends they will cheer you on and help you stay committed. You might even find a buddy or family member with similar goals. Working together can make it more fun and consistent.
8. Reward Yourself Give ourself a reward when you reach a milestone. It could be a fun activity, a small treat, or a relaxing break. Rewards make the journey enjoyable and give you something to look forward to in the short term.
9. Focus on Why It Matters Remind yourself why your resolution is important. Maybe you want to be healthier, feel happier, or save for something special. Keeping our “why” in mind will help us stay motivated, even when it gets hard.
So, remember, the new year is a chance to grow and improve our lives! By setting realistic goals, staying flexible, staying positive, and celebrating our progress, we can make our resolutions work. It’s not about being perfect—it’s about doing our best and achieving our goals. Happy New Year!